Month: April 2023

Hi Friendo, feeling manic?

People lose their heads considering all the options available to them, and how do you not?

There’s AI taking over, goo roos telling you how to supposedly not be screwed from it, the ever present fear of missing out, and all this fighting for your attention while you, sit there wondering WTF should you be doing with your life?

Well, that was me for the last 3 months, and now I’m making my way back.

The people that do make it out, meaning live fuller lives they can smile on death beds with, those people figured out one thing, and it isn’t some law of attraction formula or how to make millions from technology.

Notice the same people gossiping about impending doom and innovation are all ultimately unsuccessful.

The people that “make it” they don’t pay attention to commercials.

This is the ultimate lesson:

STOP LOOKING TO AND AT EVERYBODY ELSE.

Your answer is yours alone. Copy someone else’s path and you’ll find more than failure, you’ll find misery.

Keeping up with the kardashians of business, technology, or whatever space you obsess over won’t do anything for you.

That’s not how anyone wins.

You know when I’m the happiest? When I have a ladder to climb.

That’s right. I actually hate entrepreneurship, business, and even entertainment.

All the things I thought I loved, I despise.

I actually love working at an agency, with creatives, coming up with concepts and dominating my space. I only learned that when I finally stopped listening to others.

Have the courage to have faith.

Walk your path blindly and courageously.

It’s yours to walk.

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The games of life aren’t for every person— but every person has their game. Find yours and you’ll live out your own hero’s journey. 

Not everyone can do everything, and even those naturally multi talented people shouldn’t.

Our time is limited, what you should aspire for is finding your game and going all in on that.

This is why we have all these zombie loser self improvers teaching wake up drills and pre-work jerk off mindset practices. 

LOST. 

Winners don’t do ANY of that. 

Talking about sleep optimization with grocery bags under your eyes, stfu. 

The people who actually play their game just wake up and play. They don’t  have to “deliberately practice” because they are always doing the thing. 

Understand? 

Step foot on another’s road and you murder the parts of you that don’t align with them—- which is nearly all, since your road was made uniquely for you and no one else. 

Most of us aren’t depressed or anxious, we’re DEAD. 

You killed your soul— the inner voice that used to guide you, imprisoned your inner self living out this pathetic character and you have the nerve to say you’re depressed? 

That’s cowardly. 

I can say that, I did it too. 

We all forget eventually…

…we forget why we put the masks on

…we forget who the mask is vs the person behind it, AND worst of all— we forget to take it off. 

Only when you STOP following others, flip em’ off, even the people you like. Only when you kill the need to copy, will you then naturally gravitate towards truth— the path meant for you. 

There, you’ll become one of the people you admire, but not them, because there’s only one you.

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You’ve gone as far as you’re going to go but not as far as you can go…

what in the mind fu—-?

You’ve got to make new mistakes and to do that, you gotta let Jesus take the wheel, not baby, white, or black Jesus.

YOUR Jesus, YOUR inner God.

YOUR ideal.

To do that, imagine the main character you’d enjoy playing in a movie. What traits do they have and how do they live.

Then, through forbidden alchemy, by the hidden laws of the elites, you’ll pretend your life is that movie and you are that character.

Give them one day a week, feed them by dressing and acting as them.

You’ll find an untapped power that will FREE you from your own suffering and grant every wish you’ve ever had……

Or you just won’t be miserable anymore.

Either way, win-win.

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Going nowhere,

Or are you now here?

I don’t know you.

I don’t know what keeps you up at night, the regrets you have, fears you run from, or the life you wish you could live.

But I do know that thinking is an outside sport.

We have to get outside of ourselves.

You can’t keep hiding yourself, holding back, staying indoors— keeping yourself from the world.

The only way to go somewhere, to stop being lost in nowhere, is to be NOW HERE.

Whatever bridge extends itself to you, cross it.

Cross it like your life depends on it, because it probably does.

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They tell you to ask for help, but don’t have tears in your eyes when you do it… no one likes you when you’re needy.

I’ve been trying to work out what’s next for me.

See, I been stuck in this weird “what now?” phase and haven’t the slightest clue what to do with it.

I thought about moving, making a lateral career change, dating around, changing my appearance, taking on a new hobby, and even starting an only fans brand— it’d be PG, but ya know, just looking for change.

After thrashing about headlessly I came to realize something.

Only ONE thing removes you from living the life you’re supposed to be living, and it isn’t making the wrong decisions or wasting time repeating mistakes.

Nope.

That don’t matter at all friendo.

In fact, the only thing that can truly DERAIL your life is you following others.

Wanna break free of whatever you’re stuck on?

Do it YOUR OWN way.

It’s that easy.

YOUR way is what gets you the lessons you need, experiences unique to you, and the adventure of your life that you’ve only tasted taking recreational drugs (or not… I’m a D.A.R.E. grad too).

Point is, YOUR WAY unlocks all of it.

But that’s not what most of us will do.

When we’re depresso, we don’t trust ourselves. So we delegate “deciding” to other people, people we think know better for us.

And honestly, I can’t think of a better way for you to suicide your own soul and condemn yourself to whatever circle of hell you fit into.

You CAN’T use other people to solve your problems. 

I tried.

If you wanna gain new information to weigh out your options- go for it. But when it comes to what to do with your life, only you can figure that out, and theres really only one way to do it. 

Overcome your socialized self.

You’ve been disconnected from your instincts via society controlling you, don’t worry, it’s not a conspiracy, just part of the game.

We don’t know what we want, what’s right, what’s best for us, what to do…. 

We don’t know anymore because we spent so much time trying to be what we needed to be to survive.

But there is a little cheat code out of this paradise lost then found, and it works for each individual. 

Here’s what you’ll do to recalibrate yourself and get back on the course that is supposed to be your life: 

Invent a character. 

No, 

You’re not going to hop on stage and role play, but you are going to write down how this person is different from you? 

Where do they live, what do they do for fun, how do they carry themselves.

Roman generals used to invoke muses during battle, wiser people than themselves, spirit guides, to help them overcome their reality.

We can do the same.

Write down who you’d wanna play? What is this person capable of?

Start writing letters to them, your mind will fill in the gaps and the best part? The right path will come from whatever you create, because you can’t make anything that doesn’t come from the purest parts of your soul.

What we create, creates us.

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Our minds are wired to “wait and see.”

We don’t want to change or give something all of our effort and risk looking stupid, unless we’re sure it’ll lead to what we want.

AND that’s why most people never get anything.

If you want more than you have, you’ve got to be more.

You have to act like you already got the thing, because that person knows what steps to take next.

You, as who you are right now, got you this far.

If you want something more, you’ll have to show up and match whatever that next level is.

P.S. Better to overshoot it, than under.

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When I spoke, I spoke truth to others— but lies to myself.

Most of us will think ourselves away from our own life’s answers.

I used to say “get it by any means” like that was my value.

But my actions revealed otherwise.

My actions were that of someone who would never do anything that went against others.

Do you talk about values you don’t actually practice? Almost like you want to be that person…. but you aren’t.

Presenting is not the same as being.

I wasn’t what I presented.

Most of the decisions you make are tied to your values.

YOU ARE ALREADY practicing what you prioritize… the question is, how to optimize in order to live a fulfilling life?

I make regular things hard— like committing, moving, taking on new roles, etc.

And its because I prioritize freedom.

Even when I wanted to prioritize ambition & success— I never actually made decisions that put those values first, rather, I defaulted to protecting freedom and spoke ambitiously, falsely.

And I never stopped to think what’s driving me and my life, why did I automatically do the things I did?

Rather than trying to be more ambitious or successful, I’m now going to prioritize my one true value.

I’m going to become autonomous, as practically as possible.

My advice to you?

Find the value you never cheat on, and build your life around it.

Pay attention to why you do what you do, you’ll find the truth there— and then, you’ll know what steps to take next…

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