They tell you to ask for help, but don’t have tears in your eyes when you do it… no one likes you when you’re needy.
I’ve been trying to work out what’s next for me.
See, I been stuck in this weird “what now?” phase and haven’t the slightest clue what to do with it.
I thought about moving, making a lateral career change, dating around, changing my appearance, taking on a new hobby, and even starting an only fans brand— it’d be PG, but ya know, just looking for change.
After thrashing about headlessly I came to realize something.
Only ONE thing removes you from living the life you’re supposed to be living, and it isn’t making the wrong decisions or wasting time repeating mistakes.
Nope.
That don’t matter at all friendo.
In fact, the only thing that can truly DERAIL your life is you following others.
Wanna break free of whatever you’re stuck on?
Do it YOUR OWN way.
It’s that easy.
YOUR way is what gets you the lessons you need, experiences unique to you, and the adventure of your life that you’ve only tasted taking recreational drugs (or not… I’m a D.A.R.E. grad too).
Point is, YOUR WAY unlocks all of it.
But that’s not what most of us will do.
When we’re depresso, we don’t trust ourselves. So we delegate “deciding” to other people, people we think know better for us.
And honestly, I can’t think of a better way for you to suicide your own soul and condemn yourself to whatever circle of hell you fit into.
You CAN’T use other people to solve your problems.
I tried.
If you wanna gain new information to weigh out your options- go for it. But when it comes to what to do with your life, only you can figure that out, and theres really only one way to do it.
Overcome your socialized self.
You’ve been disconnected from your instincts via society controlling you, don’t worry, it’s not a conspiracy, just part of the game.
We don’t know what we want, what’s right, what’s best for us, what to do….
We don’t know anymore because we spent so much time trying to be what we needed to be to survive.
But there is a little cheat code out of this paradise lost then found, and it works for each individual.
Here’s what you’ll do to recalibrate yourself and get back on the course that is supposed to be your life:
Invent a character.
No,
You’re not going to hop on stage and role play, but you are going to write down how this person is different from you?
Where do they live, what do they do for fun, how do they carry themselves.
Roman generals used to invoke muses during battle, wiser people than themselves, spirit guides, to help them overcome their reality.
We can do the same.
Write down who you’d wanna play? What is this person capable of?
Start writing letters to them, your mind will fill in the gaps and the best part? The right path will come from whatever you create, because you can’t make anything that doesn’t come from the purest parts of your soul.
What we create, creates us.
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