Which part of it is a lie? What we believe, what we’re taught, or what we need to believe- in order to live? I don’t think any of it is “real” …. and think about this for a sec— one idea changes the life you live. Learning one idea, alters the entire genre of how you exist. A toxic positivity person, denies darkness. A toxic realist, denies magic. Both are true. Because life isn’t built on reality, it’s built on ideas. Ideas are something that start imaginary and by being fed continually, become real. That’s the lie that makes your life. So wouldn’t it be better to choose your lies wisely?
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Years ago I had this dream, I followed this beautiful woman into these caves.
Her face was human, but her body was covered in black scales.
In the dream, I somehow knew she wanted to consume me— and part of me wanted that too, but I knew, even in the dream, I wouldn’t make it out if I let her.
So I escaped at the last second and woke up.
For years, I’d avoid the dark parts of my own psyche– I’d deny those parts of me. And the more I did that, the less control I had over it.
Eventually, I became only the body I lived as, but the person who lived in it wasn’t there. I was dead and didn’t know it.
So I wandered for years from thing to thing.
I thought it was career, or success, or maybe love, I didn’t know what I was looking for but eventually I ran into some good fortune and that led me back to her– right back into her cave.
When I started my writing career– that was deeply connected to who I am as an individual, so it lit a small candle in the void– that was enough to see direction.
The more I created and used skills tied to who I was as a person, the more strength that stranger gained, and without me being aware, that person finally took over.
And then I had to make a choice, let myself be eaten and see what emerges or live the rest of my life as an image– not living or dead.
I turned around and surrendered.
I walked right into the abyss.
And she took me.
When I died, something else was born– it was me but more than me, more than what I used to be.
I spent my whole life running from my own power, because I was afraid of ghosts.
But what haunts you only does so, because you’re unfamiliar. The truth is, it’s what you’re afraid of that holds everything you’re looking for.
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Here’s something weird you’ll notice–
some people have a hard time getting / keeping a job.
some people have a hard time getting / keeping a relationship.
some people have a hard time getting / keeping good health.
But all people have THEIR own “hard time”
—Why tho?
Why is my hard time a big deal for me but easy for you?
Why is your hard time a big deal for you but easy for me?
KETU.
I’m white girl blaming astrology, but it wouldn’t matter what you call it– some say it’s karma, others say it’s God, idiots call it random, but labels don’t matter here.
The point is, your brand of chains only lock for you and there is a reason for that.
Listen to what I’m saying to you because I’ve never seen this not true.
You’re not supposed to escape prison, you’re supposed to DUE YOUR TIME.
Here’s why– I’ll use an example I’ve seen in “fictional” astrology.
But real quick, a definition- Ketu is your spiritual body, it’s what you know without knowing, what you come from. But it’s also what we’re cut from, where we’re removed, where our chains lock.
Ketu in the 4th house, might make someone cut from their roots, ancestry, family, HOME. This person will desire the opposite of what they’re cut from, career (because rahu- desires, is in the 10th house). They will think to keep chasing career, avoiding the thing they don’t give a shit about– home.
But the irony is, without their ketu, without due-ing their time, they won’t succeed.
Because they don’t have the powers they need in order to achieve the thing they desire.
If you want to be a writer, you need to write, but before that– you need a story worth telling. Well your story isn’t in your pursuit, it’s in your struggle, which for this person would be– in the HOME.
Sit in your prison and ask a different question:
This is my hard time– I’m always locked by this, so then, when I finally face it, WHAT IS IT TRYING TO TEACH ME?
answer that.
Comments closedThe best part about being weird is you’re less likely to blend in. That means outsider treatment weirdo. And when you’re shunned from the world– you’re forced to learn about yours. You’re less likely to fall into the traps of others. You’re less likely to do a job that kills you for 50 years and yeah, this will also be the reason life is harder for you. But that means eventually the life you live is exactly made for you because others never let you into theirs. So when you feel left out keep in mind, there are things you pray to never be included.
Comments closedThank you for my suffering.
I didn’t believe in anything. But my suffering made me a believer. It made me a thinker. It forced me to learn about who I am when I have nothing, when I am NOTHING.
For a long time people couldn’t reach me, I wanted someone to come find me and pull me out. But they couldn’t reach deeper inside than I could, and I couldn’t. Life would be so easy if I could stop making this sacrifice.
I sacrifice job, relationships, money, and freedom, to return to my sentence. To cook myself in a room, and walk my circles of hell.
And what do I gain from my visits? My soul is renewed— Every. Single. Time.
It’s bad, it’s just as bad as they said it would be. It burns. I like pain, and still its nearly unbearable. But each time you endure it, you become something more than before.
And you become hotter than the flame they torched you with. And that heat becomes the pulse you measure your life by. I don’t know if it’ll ever end, but don’t assume the person they punish is the same person who wears the scars.
It never is.
You’re nothing without your storms. You’re nothing without enduring your suffering. That’s why you have it. That’s why it’s for you.
Will you accept the gift that is your suffering?
Comments closedYou have to walk through each door, you can’t avoid the hallways and rooms if you expect to leave.
So how do you leave?
You have to face what’s in each room.
How you face it is up to you. Use whatever gives you courage. But wearing only your face – you have to face it.
Then when you face everything else, it won’t mask you. And when it can’t do that, hell can’t hold you.
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I cry for you. I blamed you for it. I couldn’t cry for me because I wouldn’t for you, but I cry for you. I’ve been so angry towards you, I made myself forget the truth i SAW, I experienced with u, because of what others explained about my world. Their sight blinded my sight and truth about who u are, and who you always were. I was the only one with you, I saw it, and then the last near decade i made myself forget it. I let myself live making u an antagonist. But you never stopped putting me before you, and i just decided that that was u trying to weaken me, to control me, to keep me down. Every saint action, every act of love, i excused and wrote off as malice. Thats how sick i am. I let myself believe lies from others about you, than what I SAW AND LIVED WITH U. But today I remembered what actually happened, and i cry for you. Because no one could ever love someone that much and i don’t deserve that.
Comments closedI’m starting to see my threads, and I can see yours too.
We’re all moved by these invisible tracks, and when we’re half aware– we call it God.
Maybe it is.
Recently, I’ve been studying names– what they mean and beyond meaning, what nakshatra is associated with each name.
Before I changed my name, I was under mrigashira.
That constellation is known for searching– and that’s exactly how the first half of my life went.
Then, when I graduated hs, I changed my name to coincidentally, a bharani nakshatra ruled name– my ketu.
I lived out those life themes and am still living them out.
I’m not trying to make my life mean this, this happens to be the only explanation for it. Your own name holds the map to your life.
But even knowing or not knowing, you’ll move on time along those tracks, because everyone does.
Comments closedDo you ever look at the person you are and wonder… how?
How did you become this?
Doomscrolling online, I saw this wannabe artist create using gravity.
He suspends in the air, BOTH his canvas and a bucket of paint, and then he drops each— and guess what physics does?
When you attach a paint can to it and drop it in a circular motion, It paints a beautiful pattern.
Not just a beautiful pattern…
A pattern so perfect, our shaky hands could never attempt it…
And somehow, it would result with perfect lines every single time, the paint can only proved it by recording its tracked motion as it fell.
So why is he not an artist?
Well because I have standards, you buy what you want.
Here’s the point, if physics operates so gently on that canvas and paint can, painting the most perfect patterns til it reaches the end, why do we think we move free of those very same forces?
How are you so certain, somethings not moving you and, does it matter if you move with it or resist?
Still though, if you could see your canvas you might believe something else made it…. because you’re not much of an artist.
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When are you naked, if not alone?
The places we withdraw to, we withdraw in. Its like we remake our wombs and bathe in our own fluids to recover from others.
Is there such a thing as never leaving, what happens when a born person never borns? Never alives? Most people exist, and barely.
If Hell is a bedroom, heaven is outside my house?
P.S. it’s 333am posting on 3.13.24 holy synchronicity
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Two fingers on my temple call me psychic, but I think I see the sum total of what makes up your life.
Tell me if I’m close.
In YOUR LIFE– There’s the things you avoid and what you do to avoid them. And then there’s the things you want and chase and how you do it.
In between that cycle, you have to figure yourself out too.
Was I right?
Look, point is you’re never actually stuck.
Even when you feel stuck in yourself or with yourself, you’re not. Because the person asking the question or feeling the feeling, that’s the person who moves you.
All you have to do is walk the direction it pulls.
So… keep spinning.
Comments closedI’m half lying with that title.
You don’t control events, and to control others– call it what it is, they have to be semi-complicit.
But YOUR life, how it COULD unfold– that is something you CAN shape.
We’re all writers, but most of us– lousy and unoriginal.
YOU WRITE your lifes story.
Deciding it’s trash, makes it so.
Deciding it’s working for you, makes it so.
But why decide?
Dude– you won’t win hating life. No one does.
And trust me, I love the negative, dark energy, me vs the world type shit, but….
it’s really only helpful for survival, not creation.
So if you’re trying to make something new,
to do something different,
to go somewhere you’ve never been,
The only thing to change- is the story you tell yourself.
My world was hostile because that’s all I wanted to see.
I weighed darkness more than light.
And living on some care bear cloud of softness is not what I’m after, but I’m just gonna give Life the middle finger, tell it to FUCK OFF when it’s being a little bitch,
and move like I’m the creator,
Because
I am.
And so are you.
Comments closedAll things have an end.
But you come from death not creation.
You are from remains.
What’s left after death?
The thing that doesn’t.
You are what you’ve always been, just born again.
Comments closedTo leave shore, you have to depart with land.
Everyone leaves for two reasons- to chase something better, or leave something behind. But the goal for all, is to leave.
Leaving isn’t about closing doors, it’s about walking through new ones.
When you’re out there,
with nothing but ocean,
it’s easy to forget which way is north.
And then there’s storms.
Storms are what test all the sailors, it ain’t personal.
You have to weather them to pass.
And to weather them, you have to move with chaos— but who can move with chaos? The one who is unmoved by their own.
Drop your anchor and no tide will pull you away.
Shake u? Sure.
Frighten you? Absolutely.
But move u? NEVER.
Comments closedEver wonder why, when you don’t need to perform, when you don’t NEED at all, you’re able to do your actual best? I’m talking about the idk how I did that moments.
When you open your mouth from the outside, your words are deaf— they die mid flight before ever reaching the other person.
But go inside and talk from there, it all comes together for the moment.
This is what it means to create your potential.
It’s not something YOU shape. It’s something that you uncover— you allow to surface, and when it does, you try to remove all the illusion cast on that idea by your own flawed mind.
You’re not trying to make anything,
You’re moving out the way.
To uncorrupt yourself is to share your chaos– that’s REAL.
That will last.
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We JUST closed 2023 and I learned what bitter sweet tastes like…. it’s ass.
Most of the “jobs” in marketing are run by cowards, liars, fraud charlatan posers, who actually believe they can pander their product into mass success.
Geee, wonder why they’re not already famous?
These are the people who claim wanting to make a difference but hire a writer to “fluff up” the testimonials because their unimpressed clients couldn’t find the middle truth to appropriately rate them.
And THEY JUDGE YOU….. huh?!
If this is all marketing has to offer— I should probably see myself out.
On the one hand, I finally started my brand– guess what it’s based on? THE TRUTH—- ha, whaaaa, but, but, cancel culture????
And that’s what I want to off-chest in this probably “unprofessional” web rant letter to you.
YOU SHOULD NOT GIVE A SINGULAR FUCK about anything other than what’s true for you and your life.
Brands that are ultra successful, ya know what, forget brands— PEOPLE, G.O.A.T.S., Individuals, The nike commercials that are showing off mf’in winners leaving it all on the field…
…they ONLY have one thing in common— AND it ain’t chasing marketing trends or searching for coolio hashtags to prey on the youth….
Nope.
Winners win.
Das it.
They win because they focus on PLAYING > NOT presenting.
The worst of a marketer is a confidence man. Con-man. Presenter person.
They mislead you in order to succeed… but the best???
A story teller? idk.
Someone who is deeply invested in solving the problem that occupies their every mental fiber.
That’s how ya win!
Solve for others what took you everything. Give em’ da secret sauce, douche. There’s no other way to win in the world.
And as for joining these Corporation incarnated no blinking innovators, my honesty has landed me in………… LIMBO, but I can still fit under the bar.
Point is, don’t listen to me.
To succeed in the work world, you have to politic.
To succeed in the life world, you MUST NEVER.
So, let me ask you now, in our new year………
Where ya goin?
Most of my life happened in a room.
I tried so many different suits BUT still walked out with nothing other than the clothes I had on walking in.
My room was something that killed me.
It cooked me.
It disguised me.
I ran from the world to my room.
But I found the world in my room.
The place I escaped from and to, became the place I found and faced myself.
You’re in your room right now.
Maybe it’s small, or maybe it’s large.
Either way, you have an opportunity right now– you can rot in your room, and recover from it later– eventually restarting the old (but dead) life you lived.
Or you can change clothes.
Walk out a different person, be different.
…no matter what you choose,
I’ll wait for you outside 🙂
Comments closedThe thing you avoid your whole life already beat you, it killed you inside.
You’re not living YOUR life– so you’re not living at all.
Now you have nothing to lose.
Because now each step you take towards the dream returns life back to you.
The bad news is you’re dead.
The good news is your next step can be an added life.
Comments closedGod, this is as close to prayer as I can get (long form) without sounding like a self absorbed idiot stuck looping. I was wrong.
I was WRONG. I obsessed over everything BUT what was real– how it looked, sounded, what people might think of me, my family, what they might decide.
I didn’t even live.
I was too scared of being judged to live, like a coward, fraud. So it makes sense that my own obsessions carved out my sentence.
My desire became my punishment.
My image became the portrait that trapped me inside.
I effectively made a sick human being. I lived for how I MIGHT LOOK to the world rather than who I could be in it.
I so badly wanted to become my own image— but all the way to now facing the age of 30, I surrender.
I’m leaving it to you. I surrender trying to control how I look, sound, come off, could be. I surrender giving a fuck about my image. I surrender trying to control how and what others see.
From here on, I live inside OUT. No more “editing” appearances. I’m done keeping up with trends. I will follow my own rules, desires, ambitions, and goals. I’m unplugging and moving towards the light— which in this case, is the truth.
What is true about MY LIFE?
I guess I’ll find out.
Comments closedCall me a psychopath, but I don’t feel bad lying.
And actually, I never did.
Despite what my naive 2nd grade teacher used to say, lying has more short-term benefits than telling the truth, and nearly always.
If I don’t want to open any can-of-worms with talking mouth in front of me, DUH, It is more advantageous to give whatever response pushes mr conversation prober away.
Which is usually a lie.
That said, lying is what ruined my life, led me to being a depressed failure, OH– and goodie, it’s the reason I chased everyone else’s life but my own because lying divorces you from your own self identity.
But more on that later.
Lying is hiding.
Fuck morals. Fuck the other person.
Who cares about being one of the good guys in a world full of GREY.
All I’m saying is tell the truth to save yourself. Because here’s what happens when you lie.
What is a lie?
Deception. And to deceive means to mirror more than to project, it means to mimic, copy, blend in, HIDE what is true– in order to go undetected or unnoticed, and pass on through.
To lie, means to swallow YOUR TRUTH (yourself) TO make the other bigger, in order to “pass. “
And then wanna know what kind of life this gets you?
Your friends only like your public image, so the second you want to be vulnerable or real- you can’t, because they’ll either reject you or not want to see you this way. Your job has a character too, bare-minimum-man, guess what they do?
But if your friends are fake, your job is fake, your image is fake, when and where do you get to be you?
And that’s what hurts most people and they can’t even see it.
They hate that they’re not the face they wear.
It’s so much better just to tell the fucking truth.
At least then, when someone does see you— They’re really LOOKING at you.
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