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I’m not going to post a random, meaningless blog- just because. Today, I’m taking the day off.

That said, I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t at least give you something to chew on.

Here’s a small realization that we all shy away from, but can free us if we embrace: You’re a deadman walking and your only job is to grant your wish.

Think about what makes you feel alive, and incorporate that in your day to day life.

Quit judging. Start Living. #StayFoolish

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How goes it fool?

You ever notice how different things are when you have a full day? Not just busy work, but actually working on engaging things?

Less isn’t more. Less sucks.

There’s a social experiment that I never forget. It was done on two families who were almost exactly the same. Family A, and Family B. They both made the same amount money, had the same amount of kids, were similar ages, etc. The study was tracking their experience of time. Family A would watch TV and chill after work and school, while Family B had a packed week– each day filled with after- school activities, family game night, sports, and meaningful projects.

Family A reported never having enough time, while Family B reported HAVING plenty of time. That’s weird. On top of that, Family A felt more dissatisfied with their work life, while Family B felt pleasantly involved.

What is this ass-backwards reality?

It’s reality.

I’ve seen it for myself. Regardless of what I was doing, the more I took on and embraced, the more fulfilling and involving my life became.

Don’t wait to find something better.

Don’t excuse away doing something later.

Do it all- now.

Do things after work, take on more projects, and involve yourself MORE.

What they don’t tell you is that’s the key to a better life.

#StayFoolish

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What’s happenin’ Fool,

I’ve got some #WisdomBeforeAge for ya.

The dumber I am, the more I succeed. It’s a weird law, but suck on that Mrs. Babcock!

“It’s all invented anyway, so we might as well invent a story or a framework of meaning that enhances our quality of life and the life of those around us.” -Ben & Roz Zander

We’re free to approach things any way we want, but we stay traditional. You’re not stuck and your problems aren’t solved binar-ily (not a word, but idgaf).

If you don’t like the box you’re in, go circle another box.

Okay, I’m done trying to sound smart. Here it is. When I stopped over-thinking could-I, should-I, and How— I began to succeed. Why? Because movement always leads somewhere, so act before you’re ready.

Just say yes to something you want to do that also scares you.

Say f**k it, and actually mean it.

Life isn’t water, it’s a hose. It’s got kinks, knots, and little holes with duct tape around it. It’s not very reliable, but hey, it’s your hose. Your only job is to find what to water.

Happy Gardening.

WTF? Why do you have boat in the title? Because I liked the reference and went for it, not everything needs to have a point. But fine, here… if you build a solid boat, you’ll never drown. Idk. #OnmyGuruShiiit

#StayFoolish

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Top of da mornin’ to ya Fool,

I feel like we’re on that level. We really know each other now, so I feel comfortable enough admitting I don’t know what the f**k I’m doing.

I’m wingin’ it as I go.

There is literally NO PLAN.

And yet, it just keeps coming. New opportunity after new, and I keep thriving– why? Because I’m qualified? HA!

I’m a lot of things, but resume friendly is not one of them.

The reason my life can now best be defined by the phrase “awesome-possum” is because I SHOW UP.

It’s my movie, so I camera-roll with it. #poet

Who are you looking to? Why do you wanna be saved from your own life? If you don’t like how you’re playing the game, show up different.

Play as a different character.

Almost as if by accident, I started succeeding because I quit resisting obstacles. If I burn, I burn. When I let go of my idea of what a good life would be, I finally got it. It’s the strangest occurrence and I don’t understand it at all.

The hardest thing for me was letting go and after repeated failures, a multitude of ego-deaths (with the core in-tact), and a new found acceptance for the life I had, I tripped into it.

I’m playing, because I want to play.

If you want a good life- stay playful. How you respond to life is entirely up to you, but being playful makes us more creative, better problem solvers, smooth as silk in social environments, and gifts an overall fun life.

I double-dog-dare you. Try it. If only for a week… do it.

#StayFoolish

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What’s happening Fool,

Excuse me for talking with my mouth full.

I’m living my life like a movie and my advice to you is to do the exact same. If you’re not writing your script, who the hell is?

Opportunity is covering me like sweat after a workout, and it’s all because I stay saying “YES.”

Why are we afraid to bite off more than we can chew, how else do you think you’ll learn?

I stumbled onto the fast track, and I’m trying to figure out what I can reveal here with you all, without actually revealing it.

I’ll keep it brief and share just a snippet of what the hell I’m talking about.

Basically, in a matter of months, I’ve climbed and slid right into a role I’ve always dreamed of.

For awhile, I tried to convince myself this career wasn’t for me. I thought the politics of it were exhausting, there’s more out there, I deserve something bigger, etc. etc, bullshit, bullshit.

You know how it goes. A lot of us know and have always known exactly what we want, but we try and talk ourselves out of it.

Don’t.

Quit wondering why you enjoy what you do. Stop questioning.

Just play with your life. Act boldly, be ignorant- ignorant enough to be willing to fail spectacularly.

I threw myself in front of others, I refuse to be shy about it. I’m willing to look like the dumbest motherf**ker anyones ever come across, because on my deathbed, I’ll be able to say I went for it.

Who cares if it all plays out exactly how you want.

Who gives a shit.

You get to play and instead you’re wasting life living serious.

No opportunity ever presented itself to the miserable person, know why? Because they thought it was a scam.

You have to play to attract it all. You have to live to fully thrive.

Write yourself into a role you enjoy playing, and remember, it only works if you #StayFoolish.

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What’s up Fool,

Are you familiar with the KISS acronym (keep it simple, stupid)?

If you’re looking for a value to live your life by, take this one. This has been by far the most beneficial lesson I’ve learned in my life, and it’s the easiest one to implement.

Overthinking = Sinking.

Luck follows the bold, but bold follows the dumb. You’ve got to get out of your own way. As an intelligent person- I just couldn’t succeed.

There was no chance.

I’d sit there and scheme, plan, plot, then try to manipulate circumstances to my favor. It never worked.

Paradoxically, I took this as a sign that MORE information was what I needed. So, I journeyed to become more intelligent. I read… voraciously.

Like eating, the more I tried the more I craved.

Self-improvement became a lifestyle, not a hobby. I was all in- adopting the recommended habits, cold-showering daily, meditating, re-aligning my chakras through parting with low-energy vampires- I was consumed.

The only thing I lived for was this idea- that to be successful, I had to be miserable.

And mission accomplished- not the success, the misery.

So there, with glowing aura, self-preserving energy, and habits to rival a robot, I found myself EMPTY.

Just like that, I let go.

Well… I moved to a different state where I then had no time to do all those jerk off improvement habits, because alone and broke I had to work.

Here is the irony of it all. I began to see real results when I didn’t do all those bullshit habits, but rather only worked on my problem areas. #ImaGoddamnDetective

Once I started focusing on skills that I was inclined for then I began to see results. Today, I’ve got the career, I’m more fulfilled than I’ve ever been and the funny part about it all? I haven’t read a book in months.

I’m not saying don’t learn, I’m saying learn for yourself.

Some random author can’t tell you what’s right for you. Only you can do that through trial and error.

So dumb it down and go try shit.

#StayFoolish

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No one can really see themselves.

Sure, you see your insides (the places you frequent) but most people don’t see how ridiculous they act.

We’re all the same booger-launching, fit-throwing, tantrum-fueled children we were to our parents growing up.

The difference is, as an adult, you’ve gained a sense of style and can dress up your bullshit.

You over-rationalize and explain away your shitty behavior. We say we learn from our mistakes and we only acted a certain way because the situation hit too close to home and we were having an “off” day, but all that’s bull.

The truth is, most don’t ever learn from their mistakes and most people NEVER change.

They just keep getting older, on the inside they’re that same 5 year old and the out- decaying. Til we die we do this.

My fear is this right here.

It’s being stuck in my ways, acting like a 4-year old. And not to generalize, but most people will have this fate. When you go to the local Costco and you see some old man shouting at the clerk because his prunes are marked up by $2, know that this phenomena is behind it all.

On their death beds– what you’ll hear from them: I coulda done so much more, I should of LIVED.

What sets us apart from all other life on this planet is largely our imagination. This muscle- improperly used will cause you to suffer, but if you embrace it- you can free yourself right now.

Pretend you have one year to live, now LIVE.

LIVE without holding back and holding on, just be. Whatever you’re worried about, it won’t matter a year from now, so it shouldn’t matter now. In the face of death, we gain clarity. The fact is, the only certainity in life is you will die.

So is this how you want to live?

#StayFoolish

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Welcome Back Fool.

Have you ended your search yet? You know that little thing you do where you come up with all the ways it won’t work?

Over-thinking is poison.

I’m actually starting to believe there is little worse than this so-called “decision optimization” process.

Being “dumb” has not only worked out for me every single time, but it’s by far the greatest tool I’ve got to get ahead in life.

And let me clarify, by dumb, I mean unthinking, bold, just-do-it, worry-later… LET IT GO.

Basically, move like a child (without your childhood beliefs).

We’re too smart for our own good. That’s why you doubt yourself- because you found all the ways it can go wrong.

Critics don’t create shit.

As we get older and we hold onto our old people beliefs, whichever suit the generation we just came from, we lose touch with our ability to produce.

Protect your dumbness, ya dumb mothaf**ka.

Protect it at all costs.

How do we imagine that somehow at a certain age, we now have the world figured out? You’re the same idiot who once thought a fat white man broke into your house at night, ate your cookies, and left behind deposits… “gifts you wanted because he watched you cheat on your math test.”

I’m a fool.

I refuse to wait til I’m ready, think of all the possibilities, worry about if I’ll make it, instead I’ll just act. If I fail, I literally don’t care. There’s no such thing as failure, there’s life and death. That’s it. And when I die, it definitely won’t matter, so it doesn’t matter now.

Wanna create something in your life?

A business, art, any new venture… dumb yourself down.

Then start.

#StayFoolish

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What’s up Fool,

Ever heard the saying, “sink or swim?”

I know how to swim but I can’t stop myself from falling over-board… and that’s an entirely different problem.

I never was afraid of water, not the lakes, oceans, or any would-be intimidating body of blue.

I guess I’m that ignorant. That said, while I don’t mind going for the casual dive, I’ve been trying to navigate my life and build something that will last.

Don’t wish for the storms to stop, be a better sailor.

All of us have these areas in our lives that cause the majority of our problems- our blind spots.

For myself, the struggle has always been an emotional tidal wave. When I’m clear-thinking, chilling in that crystal geyser, I’m able to enjoy the moment, experience more, and make better decisions. I’m level, and so building is easy.

But something happens and it happens frequently. I get these wild swings and when they come, I’m thrown over-board. I then see everything in all-or-nothing, get paranoid, become possessed by erratic feelings and have some urge to escape my own life and leave it all behind.

While this might not sound that bad, it’s painful. Truthfully, I’ve been able to navigate better by not making any decisions while I’m in this phase, but the fact that I regularly go through these tropical storms is exhausting.

The storm never stops.

When I was younger, I imagined the cause was my overall lack of direction and that when I found my calling/passion/career all the WAVES would level out, and I wouldn’t be in the water, but on some island sippin’ coconut margi’s.

Well, I’m happy with my life. I have a career I enjoy, that I find fulfilling and challenging, but the exact storms from my youth remain.

I don’t know if there’s a better way, but here’s how I’m sailing.

I don’t believe my mind. When these storms come, I know they don’t last long, so my only job is to ride it out. I don’t make any decisions here, and I try not to be around people because sometimes they get the worst of me during these times.

By far the biggest help is DISTANCE.

I’m learning to distance myself from myself. I don’t take myself too seriously.

When I’m in this emotional state, I write. I laugh. I do whatever I can to get actual clarity.

See, I’ll never stop having the storms and I realize that now, but I don’t have to lose my composure. I can look at them and recognize them for what they are, just temporary climate change, that I can ride out and get right back on course to what I was doing.

Whatever your weather, don’t give in.

It might be apart of your wiring, but you don’t have to lose.

Stay Strong, Stay Active, Stay Playful.

#StayFoolish

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What’s hatnin’ Fool,

I don’t know where you’re at in your journey but I wanted to share some accidental, yet effective methods, that led to my scaling rock bottom and landing on top.

First, if you’re depressed, low, emotionally bankrupt- put the dreams and goals on hold. Beta version of you has no business making plans for alpha.

And as a side note, there is so much to be gained from floating around, so quit worrying about your dumbass timeline. I know, “but it sucks, it’s painful, I’m having dark thoughts…” what they don’t tell you is it’s necessary to get to where you need to go. If it wasn’t you wouldn’t being going through it.

Second, explore (yourself). It doesn’t matter if its journaling, talking to a therapist (that one aunt who always listens), or long walks on the beach wearing all white, looking like you’re about to drop the next #1 pop song.

You need to get in touch with your uniqueness.

For the first time in my life I’m starting to see career success. I’ve wanted this since my filling-the-diaper years, but didn’t know how to get here.

And no, I didn’t know exactly what the hell I wanted to be when I grew up, but I was unwaveringly focused to reach peak success (being worshiped for being me).

Anyway, that luckily never happened and because of that, I reached De-enlightenment. What’s that? It’s when you’re artificially depressed but spiritually hopeful.

The best thing I did was let go. I’m saying this like it all happened so fast but it took about 6 years.

That’s 6 years of superficial pursuits, ego-stroking delusions, and lots of failure.

After I let go of the idea of what I thought I wanted, I came back to the real world. I opened myself to other things, by just trying them.

And that casual playful approach led me here.

If you’re going to get out and live the good life, first you need to allow yourself to figure out who you are. Not who you want to be, but who you are beneath all your social conditioning. When you have that, success is a byproduct.

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Hey Fool,

If you’re having a miserable time you haven’t been playing with what you’ve got.

Yesterday, while I was driving home listening to sad nostalgic music because F**k it- I wanna feel something, it hit me.

Not literally, I ducked that pigeon and heroically quick at that. But figuratively, I had a realization.

The best time of my life was the age of foolishness.

I wasn’t coming up with bullshit reasons of why I couldn’t have a good time, enjoy myself, or do all the things I wanted to.

All I was focused on was playing with what I had, the life I had.

If you NEED to be with others to enjoy a certain activity, it ain’t it Jack.

Hows that quote go, youth is wasted on the young? I think we convince ourselves that distractions are the “play” when in reality, that’s why you’re empty inside. #EdgarAllanPOET

If you need to run towards frenzy you’re not living, you’re escaping.

I thought because I’m extroverted, time-wasting with motherf**kers I could barely tolerate was the only way for me to be alive. I’d hate them and hate myself for being around them, but it was a temporary way to numb the pain and I didn’t want to be alone. Luckily, I was wrong. Those retiring low energy unambitious 20-somethings are not apart of my life.

Don’t blame others for your unhappiness and don’t get pissed off at them because you’re using them for something they’re not (your toys).

Why haven’t you been playing? Whatever you think is stopping you, it isn’t. I’m sure of that. It’s actually so simple, you almost have stupid to understand it.

The thing you do for yourself, on the side, that little activity that kinda does it for you- that’s it. That’s where you need to start.

If you don’t have it, play towards it.

#StayFoolish

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What’s up fools,

This one’ll be short since I have to go put out a fire I started.

Boredom is a necessary part of everything we do, and the real lesson to learn behind it- is to sit there and practice the ability to focus.

I know that, but I’ve been losing every battle.

I can’t help but wait til the absolute last minute to do something. These blogs are written last minute, my hobbies are done at random, and anytime I have extra time, I spend it all til there is just barely any left.

And I convince myself that I work better with this type of pressure, I always deliver, this is somehow my style of productivity.

But it’s this part right here that sucks.

Waking up in a panic, racing out the door to make it, and accepting that today you might crash and burn in the flames.

I don’t like this feeling.

I hate doing this. It’s annoying and nothing is a big enough deal to act like this for. That said, I’m not going to procrastinate. Can I just will myself to stop?

IDK.

But this type of work style doesn’t work for me.

See you on the other side… on time, hopefully.

#StayFoolish

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Hail Fools,

Yesterday I had one of those days- you know those days when you feel moody, kind of tired, and then you’re visited by “hello, darkness my old friend.”

Laying there, pondering the mysteries of the universe, I couldn’t shut my mind off. All I wanted to do was sleep off that gnawing existential sadness buried from childhood wounds but my f**king mind kept watering my internal garden of bullshit.

So I gave in.

“What then!”

It was like a shower thought, vague, yet full of the right answers to questions you can’t articulate. I realized something, life is so much simpler than you think.

I used to wonder why certain times in my life were ecstasy while others were unbelievably low.

I only ever feel this sadness when alone for too long. I was quick to diagnose this awhile back as some type of depression, but luckily I was way off. It turns out I’m just social. When I go a few days without group activities I get a double shot of depresso-espresso. The wiring of a true extrovert.

When I went through my post high school graduation identity crisis, I was really into personality psychology.

Makes sense, since you’re lacking sense of self. #Bars

I tried out the zodiac thing but that made it worse. My astrological combo was supposedly “conflicting” so I wrote that off as trash gobbledygook and went to mbti.

I didn’t like that either. It tried to tell me I’m unfocused and all over the place, and sure it’s true, but I’m kinda depressed, 18, pimply and haven’t done shit with my life yet, so naturally it’d be true.

Finally I landed on some boring ass big 5 personality test. No validation, no cool things to brag about, just a useful guide for how to build a life around your character.

High extroversion- means I needed to be apart of a team, low agreeable… I need to compete, and never do direct customer service roles.

So what’d I do with this info back then?

Nothing.

Pretended I never saw it and continued to do whatever the f**k I want.

Not so surprisingly, life wasn’t fulfilling breaking the rules of my DNA. And so as the years went by and I tried out careers way outside my wiring, I kept being hit by the lacking sense of self. Deep resentment due to not abiding by your nature.

And then it hit me.

There, laying in the fetal position after eating a bag of Hawaiian BBQ chips, you just need to build your life around your character.

It’s that simple.

I revisited my past for signs of this, was it true? Sure enough, the years where I accidentally honored what I was like, I felt more myself and was happy AF.

So there it is.

Figure out how you’re wired, and rewire your life.

#StayFoolish you handsome motherf**kers.

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As selfish as I am, and believe me, I only think about me first, I’ve always been fairly group oriented. I enjoy working with a team, and yeah, I usually end up leading it and becoming a tad dictatorial, but I DO want everyone to win.

That said, the older I’ve gotten the more I’ve come to see we all have a different place in this world.

You can’t make plans for anyone other than yourself, and you shouldn’t. It isn’t right.

If you have a goal, unless it’s genuinely shared by others- don’t involve them. Have a passion project? Maybe a business you’re launching? Unless your friends are genuinely excited about the goal itself and would do it regardless, sharing it will hurt you both.

I wanted group success.

I wanted everyone around me to want what I want.

I wanted a team to dominate with, friends and family to be a family.

But this isn’t realistic.

You won’t make it “wanting.”

You’ll never get to where you need to go waiting on others. Whatever it is you want, figure out every part of it yourself. Don’t involve friends just because they’re friends.

That’s bad business.

Go it alone. The call is only for those who hear it.

#StayFoolish

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For the life of me, I couldn’t understand why things take either a long time or no time. Maybe it’s nothing, just some trick played by the brain. But it really feels like life is just flying by, as I move towards living it.

Too many of us justify “not” living.

We’ve got bills to pay, responsibilities to honor, things to do and thingamajigs to work on.

So our solution is to say “tomorrow.”

We try to convince ourselves that we’ll get to living. We’ll eventually have the things we want out of life by somehow finding them tomorrow.

Be Benjamin Button.

During my youth, I was possessed by the spirit of a geezer; I was cranky, cynical, and way too worried about things that didn’t matter at all.

As I got older, I let go.

I let go because I realized I wasn’t living. When you practice living for tomorrow, you become good at avoidance, and then suddenly nothing does anything for you at all. You find yourself numb.

Met with shock from learning I had unresolved issues and apparently I couldn’t force the universe to grant my dreams, I learned the most key to life.

It isn’t what you have, it’s who you become.

You may never get the things you want. You might not ever reach your euphoria or whatever goal it is you fantasize about. But that doesn’t matter.

Those things don’t determine the course of your life.

If you want a good life, you need to start embracing every moment of it, and optimistically. You need to see it all, even the shitty parts, as a part of your fate- something to be faced, confronted, and learned from.

Smile at the world, flirt with existence, play through the pain.

Do this, and suddenly in no time, you’ll find yourself in a better movie.

#StayFoolish

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Magnetic, mysterious, with a subtle darkness to them~ all the while, they are incredibly capable and perceptive… guess the sign.

If you guessed dumbass, you may have a future in fortune telling.

Why do people go out of their way to identify themselves with something so two-dimensional?

Wouldn’t you rather be an individual? No, I’m not closed-minded, I’m just a Taurus- and we’re stubborn, we don’t learn.

Every single measure, it’s like we need to use it to justify our faults. It’s not ADHD, its being Inquisitive- I’m an ENTP, you’d know… but you can’t.

“My personality is 3% of the population.” DISGUSTING.

If you talk like that you’re a loser.

People find the dumbest things to take pride in. How’s that any different from someone who takes pride in their skin color? You don’t control that either.

I’m not saying zodiac freaks are racist, I’m saying it’s coming from the same muscle in the brain.

Human nature doesn’t change.

Zodiac signs, personality tests, mbti, enneagram, whatever` your brand of identity- if you’re just using it to self-sooth you’re an idiot.

The only point of those measures would be to actually help gain self-awareness, so you can be less blind to your own character and shape yourself into a better human being.

Yet the people who tattoo this shit on their forehead are the EXACT opposite. They don’t use it to improve, just explain. You feel better because you can point to something in your abstract character and explain away your lunacy.

This is all trendy groupthink. It’s not so different from an occult or religion. Every generation comes with it’s believers and non-believers, but this one has too many believing nonsense.

You call it open minded, everyone else calls it naive.

And the weirdest part about it, if you’re clinging on that tight- you probably don’t have those traits you all-too-proudly proclaim.

The greatest minority is the individual.

A free-thinking, independent, learner- who takes their character into their own hands.

That probably doesn’t sound very interesting, at least not as interesting as I’m a scorpio rising, megatron moon.

I don’t care if you’re a capricorn, dragon, non-nonbinary, or whatever the fuck it is you desire… but trust me, if you actually want a good life instead of pretending, you need to quit lying to yourself and get real.

We’re all born delusional, becoming aware is an attitude.

#StayFoolish

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Of course putting in the work matters. Nothing gets done through sitting and vision-boarding your future if you don’t take action.

But in reality, we’re all built for different things.

If you enjoy riding the struggle bus and making random stops throughout rock bottom- ignore this post.

Sure, you can hold on for dear life to whatever you think your dream is. But if you’re not built for it, you just won’t make it that far.

What is guaranteed is your struggle. And trying to make a false dream a reality is the pinnacle of suffering.

I want a fun life, but fulfillment comes from competency, which means doing something that you get decent returns on.

It took 8 years, but Peter Pan finally realized he doesn’t want Neverland, he wants Wonderland.

I want my life to be stimulating, challenging, and for my work to be intrinsically connected to who I am. I can honestly say, my hard-headed ass is finally moving towards that.

Once I chose a path that was based on my nature, whad’ya know Sherlock, I started seeing success.

Both materially and spiritually.

Wanna succeed? Do what you are. Do work that you’re inclined for.

I used to fantasize about dominating every niche on a whim. I’d be the best in the world director, filmmaker, rockstar, musician, entrepreneur, leader, time magazine’s Man of the year, and an overall icon- in every sense of the word.

But then I woke the fuck up.

I realized that mindset doesn’t lead to success or wealth, but rather delusion and then depression.

With this came one question, what does the pattern of my life reveal for inclinations and career and what am I spending my time on?

This was my way out.

Success is easy. That sounds so wild, but it’s true. If you have self-awareness and a growth mindset, success will accompany you as a byproduct.

But it takes effort to become self-aware.

Do that, and you’ll succeed.

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“An emotional response to a situation is the single greatest barrier to power, a mistake that will cost you a lot more than any temporary satisfaction you might gain by expressing your feelings.” ~Robert Greene

If you’re not moving towards something, you’ll fall backwards.

I don’t want to be like the majority of people, who in their 50s, 60s, and beyond stay the same. They’re just as dumb as in their youth, but with the added feature of age, now more hard-headed and “stuck in their ways.”

I want to constantly evolve, improve, get to know myself, challenge myself, and most of all- I never want to stop playing.

These roles we act out, why take them serious?

At any given moment you can rewrite the script to your life, but most won’t. They surmise that what they are is fixed, and their shitty life is authentic, because it’s what they know.

LUNACY.

We care too much about things that matter too little and when we’re alone, if we allow ourselves this luxury, we realize we don’t understand ourselves.

The human animal is a performer by nature. We do it to be accepted, we do it because it feels good to belong, to show off, to be validated.

However, you’re also a writer, director, and a producer.

If you don’t like how your life is going, change it.

Live out a new movie. The one bad habit most people share is dogmatic thinking. You assume this is it, this is all there is.

What if, for the next 30 days you reset?

Don’t know anything, don’t have assumptions, be new.

Dare to approach the world like a child, drop your bullshit beliefs, and see what happens. If you want a new life- this is really all there is to it.

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A lot of us know the answer.

We know what we should do, we just don’t.

If your life is miserable and you find yourself increasingly pissed off at the world, finding your passion isn’t going to help much.

You need to free yourself from yourself, before you can do anything.

Everyone talks about do what you love, but no one ever mentions the order of things. If you’re low, your first task is to get to neutral.

You can’t waltz into wonderland depressed and wondering, they won’t admit you, it just doesn’t work like that.

Thing is, passion isn’t what saves us, mindset is. Your overall approach and attitude is what will inevitably lead you to the life you desire.

You need to go from being a student to a practitioner.

You have to live different. You’re going to feel like a fraud. Being optimistic is a choice, and it’s hard. Deciding to live unapologetically takes courage.

All these cynical people with dry, sarcastic attitudes, they present a cool front to hide insecurity.

Maintaining a childlike spirit might not look cool, but it leads to a better life. Whatever it is you want out of life, first ask yourself what type of person do you need to be to live that life?

What would you need to believe about yourself and the world?

When you answer it, don’t just know it, act it.

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The strangest thing about the human being is identity.

It’s crazy that the beliefs you hold and how you see yourself, have the power to change and determine your fate. The quality of your existence is inextricably tied to your self-concept.

I see this on the smallest scale.

When I over-identify with my ego, I become narcissistic, isolated, and overly-focused on looking good rather than learning (I happen to have a demigod Ego). If I over-identify with my emotions, I become them, and lose the ability to distance myself and gain clarity.

Both types of identities lead to a shitty quality of life.

Don’t get me wrong, we need our egos and we need our emotions. But you shouldn’t be defined by them, that’s like those people who over attach to their zodiac sign descriptions and numb any traits that don’t fit into their fortune cookie personalities.

The thing is, how you see yourself is the most important thing in the world.

Crafting a functional identity determines the quality of your life, whether or not you reach your goals, and whether or not you have fulfilling and meaningful relationships.

The way I see it, your only safe bet to achieve a full life and have a functional identity is to base it on potential.

Identify with your higher self.

Start with characteristics you admire, strip the story and get to the core traits you value. Looking at what you despise often reveals core values as well. I despise control, because I value freedom.

As human beings we have the ability to control our narrative.

Who do you want to be in your movie?

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