Life is pretty much nothing like school– raising your hand and asking a stupid question doesn’t get ya points for mental attendance.
In fact, LIFE rewards behavior that got ya into parent teacher conferences and removed from fun Friday’s (not my trauma…).
In this way, success is counterintuitive because it demands bold action– and in your own name.
The things we used to be punished for, become the reasons we *could be* rewarded.
And this is something weird I’ve been noticing in my own life.
Despite how rude, dumb, inconsiderate, and childish I act– I’m climbing.
At first I was confused about it, why is it that I can say and do these things but others get in trouble for exhaling disappointment?
But it’s actually simple.
Besides being good at what I do (which you have to be before you can start having opinions) I’m going all out, and people know it.
EVERYONE wants someone who GOES ALL OUT.
None of us like a deadbeat part timer who half-asserys their entire life.
You want success? Stop treating it like a 9-5 or some school roll call. Find an environment that you feel aligns with what you want to be doing– and unleash your own potential.
Be a main character to live like one.
Your problem is you’re waiting to be discovered– maybe for the right opportunity to find and invite you to a more awesome life…. well, here’s the bad news for ya… no one invites the quiet kids. And it’s not because you’re an introvert, they genuinely didn’t notice you.
Want more than a bleak participation trophy and a part time existence?
You have to go all out.
That looks different for each of us, but a good way to start is by embracing the little things in your life.
Start small.
I hated all meetings at work, so I asked myself, “What would these look like if they were fun?”
I brought the fun.
Somehow meetings turned into opportunities which turned into slam dunk wins.
How would the person you want to be view your situation? PLAY AS THEM.
–FOOL
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