When you finally understand the unchangeable aspects of who you are– it’s laughable looking back at what you thought you could do.
First, let me start with this:
If you’re looking for something, (new career, move, friend groups, whatever) start with the process of elimination NOT addition.
What’s in your life right now, that if removed, would dramatically improve your everyday experiences?
The NON- successful negotiate what wasn’t up for debate and don’t the things that don’t matter.
There ought to be a book for this, fine… I’ll write it in the future.
For now, you have to understand your character is responsible for everything in your life. If your life is maximizing your character, you’ll win. If not, you’ll lose.
It sounds so simple you probably think you’re doing this.
But it has to account for everything, free of guilt. You are who you are, and you need to channel it into your every day.
I used to see myself as ultra adaptable. Smooth. Charming. An overall pleasure to be around. I’m not joking either, BUT journaling and documenting myself throughout the years, along with having real friends– has outlined my reality.
The truth is I’m aggressive, blunt, overly competitive, despise rules and procedures, put myself first, and think that I always have the best solutions.
So how the phuck did I think I could go and play industry games as a writer or producer?
I didn’t know myself enough.
But now, it’s a different story.
Since I have a cancel-able face, I’m building my OWN brand and multiple income streams. That’s the only real option for how the hell I am.
And this is your task.
Where would your character thrive?
What are things you do every single day, that are not being used? This is 🔑
It’s what you can’t help but do, that needs to be brought to the surface and built around.
Wanna succeed in every aspect? Embrace yourself, become your number 1 fan, and be ruthless with what you allow for your life.
#FOOLFWD
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