Each and every one of us is motivated by fear, and the majority of our lives is determined by how we interact (or don’t) with our fear.
Everyone wants The Hero’s Journey in theory, but we consciously cheat on it every single day.
We live like kids but crave adult lives and then wonder why we’re depressed. Your frustration comes from incongruence, you’re not living by what you value.
A child fears being stuck. That same child as an adult fears not building anything to ever secure freedom in the future. It’s the same fear, but better developed so that one can move forward.
That is the idea behind ALPHA fears.
With the latter, you’ll end up embracing opportunity and sticking to whatever necessary to have some successful future. The child fear will lead you to frogger job-ing and thus always starting over.
We have to bring out what’s in us, and to do that we have to destroy what doesn’t match up with it.
There’s no middle ground.
There’s no reality where you have it all.
Everything in life is a trade off. To be fulfilled, and become an individual you have to leave. You have to go on your own journey and a lot of times that means the tribe will hate you.
You’ll lose friends and family, but in the end it’s worth it, because you’ll become someone you admire and respect.
Take whatever you fear, and blow it up– alpha fear it. Worried about people not liking you? How about you living a shit life and not ever being able to help anyone because you never evolved? Fearing being stuck? How about never building anything and having nothing because you always chase random delusions.
Alpha your fears and then use them to take action.
We’re supposed to burn in the flames of uncertainty. That’s where we evolve as human beings.
Take the call.
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