There is no difference between thinking about yourself and suffering–
The more we focus on ourselves, the more miserable we become.
I think we all know this on an intuitive level, that’s why people with kids are a different kind of happier.
The answer isn’t to go deeper inside, it’s to get outside of yourself.
You need to find something to commit to, where you can engage with that thing ego-less-ly. It sucks to just have you— to just be what you are, it sucks.
If you don’t have something to serve, to bring value to, something that is bigger than you or takes priority in your life– you don’t fully live.
I don’t think we’re made to exist prioritizing the options we have today.
I could be wrong, but every person who is playing the game single-player sounds DEPRESSING… at least, to me they do.
People think they crave friendships, when they really need community (join a club, start a hobby, pick a skill, choose something and let yourself obsess over it– if its healthy).
Life can be rich and filled with unimaginable experiences, but it only opens up to those who are worthy.
You have to show up with open arms for doors to open.
Drop off what you think you know, and start fresh.
–FOOL
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